Buhay America

Sometime in your married life you will argue, disagree and some time get really angry at each other.  Me and my husband argue and disagree on a lot of stuff but we don’t get into physical fighting.  It’s okay to argue, it’s actually healthy, it’s like a reality check about your relationship.  I’ve been married for seven years, we don’t always agree on everything but we compromise.  That is the best part, you need to know when do you meet in the middle about something that you don’t agree.

Don’t you have some days that the only thing you want to do is to fight and just be angry all day, well today is that day for me.  I woke up in a bad mood for no apparent reason.  It’s just because… no reason.  This is one of the thing that drives my husband bananas… he doesn’t know why I am angry and who am I angry with.  Did he do something wrong or he said something really bad.  Sometimes when my husband is up against the wall is when my anger subside.

I fell terrible, but what can I do??? I’m a woman and woman have mood swings and stuff.  I don’t know why we’re so chemically imbalanced.  I don’t like to be miserable! But some of the days  I just wanted to pick fight with anyone around me.

So I said sorry and I don’t want him to be mad at me. I am not mad at him so everything will be okay for the rest of the day.  And you know what happened after fighting… kiss and make up.. stay tune!

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I’ve been married for almost 7 years, it’s been a long time. We still don’t have a baby, you know why?????Because we are not ready yet, financially but I guess emotionally I am ready don’t know about my husband. With this rising cost of living, all we do is work all day and for what??? Well, I guess bills and bills and bills.  Someone told me if you think you are not ready today, when do you think you will be?

I do want to go home to a very cute baby with soo much love that I could not probably comprehend.  I want to see a smile that is so pure. I want to play with those little feet and little hands.  I know it’s a lot of work, some people say it’s worth it, I can’t tell why?? never had one… hahaha

I want to see the little tears coming from their eyes and tell them that every thing will be alright.  I want to see them play with their toys and maybe I could be a toy for him/her too.  I want to be with them almost every minute of their childhood.

I want to be their hero, friend, playmate, mentor, guardian and everything that any human possible could be to another human being.  He/she is my flesh and blood.  I will love them soooo much that they won’t be asking what is love.  I want to nurture them like a rose that need so much care and love so it will have a great flower.  I want to tell them stories of what I was and what I became.  

All these are wishful thinking.  I know someday I will have my own son/daughter, it doesn’t matter but I prefer son, my husband wanted a daughter, well maybe we will have twins.. hahaha… one of each, that would be so cool. 

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Hi my name is Cecille, I’m married to an american… Sometimes I had to wonder if it have been better that if I married a filipino guy?  You know how things are..  when you are married to an american, it could be heaven or it could be in between.  One advantage is … loyalty… I guess in my situation, I never had any problem about cheating… I guess I am lucky to find a very loyal guy… but if you think watching porn is cheating then I am beaten.  I guess I categorize cheating if it’s only when there is physical contact involved.  I don’t know what you think. 

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