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BFF???

When do you consider your friend as your best friend???? Is it when you feel like to told him/her all of your secrets or is it when you know him/her for so many years that you almost grew up together?

How do you gauge a friend?  Is there a bunch of questions that if they fail you would say “Oh! you failed so I guess you can’t be my best friend”  Or is it a test of time or test of some very difficult times that will reveal to you that you can count on them no matter how shitty the situation is?

I guess there are some friends that considers you a friend if it’s convenient for them, there is also some friends that only need you because they feel alone.  AND there’s also some friends that you only see when it’s party time.

Sometimes I don’t know how to tell if I have a friend or a foe.  I guess I am so naive that I could just have someone smile and talk to me for a while and I would consider them as a friend.  But best friends are very difficult for me to decide, because I already made a mistake of pouring my heart out to one person and I just learned that she didn’t feel that we are really friends.

Don’t let someone fool you because it happened to me!